It has been almost 100 years since the start of the First World War. And over 70 years since the start of the Second. My generation and even my parents’ generation, has never seen a world war that affected every home, every family, every community like these wars did. No one was left unscathed; everyone knew and loved someone that had fought and died or fought and was wounded. Everyone sacrificed and went without to support the war effort. Those generations watched thousands of men return from war scarred for life by the atrocities that they saw and lived through. But the farther we get away from these wars, the less people seem to take the time to acknowledge and remember the sacrifices these generations made. I sometimes think this may be because as far they know, no one in their family ever died in a war. But I bet they’d be surprised if they did a little research. I know I was.
My reverence for these earlier generations should in no way diminish or dismiss the efforts and sacrifice of anyone serving today. Is my generation war free now? No, of course not. Every day, men and women of the armed forces are engaged in dangerous situations all over the globe – most recently Libya and of course Afghanistan. Just the other day, another Canadian soldier was killed there. Another family will experience what it’s like to sacrifice a son, brother, father, or husband to war. It’s not on the massive scale that it was during WWI and WWII but the hurt will be the same for this soldier’s family.
In the past, as November 11th approached, sure I would wear a poppy. I might think for a second on that ‘day off’ about why I had the day off. But since doing research on my family history, this day is much more important to me now. I take the time to attend the services, to acknowledge my ancestors’ participation in these massive global tragedies and to honour the members of other people’s families who are serving today. Although I don’t have anyone in my family currently serving in the military, I truly appreciate the men and women that do serve and their families that make sacrifices and support them in their duties. I urge you to do more than just wear a poppy on November 11th but to really take the time to acknowledge the sacrifice that past generations made for our freedom and the sacrifice that our current generation continues to make.
On November 11th, I will be honouring and remembering these ancestors that fought and/or died in service to their King and country. Men who fought to ensure the freedom that I enjoy today.
Lest We Forget.
My great grand-uncle:
Thomas Alexander Neilson
S/N 3697. Private, 1/7th battalion Argyll and Sutherland Highlanders
154th Brigade 51st Division, British Expeditionary Force
Born 22 Mar 1897 – Stirling, Scotland to John Neilson and Mary Jane Cunningham.
Killed-in-Action on 15 Nov 1916 at age 19 in the capture of Frankfort Trench during the Battle of Ancre (13-18 Nov 1916) in the overarching Battle of the Somme.
Buried Frankfurt Trench British Cemetery, France
My great grand-uncle:
Stanley Benjamin Holman
S/N 288614. Private, 78th Battalion, Winnipeg Grenadiers
Canadian Expeditionary Force
Born 10 Mar 1889 – Winnipeg, MB to BH Holman and Margaret Cunningham.
Killed-in-action at the Second Battle of Passchendaele 30 Oct 1917 – Ypres, Belgium. Age 28.
Memorialized on the Menin Gate, Ypres, Belgium. No remains were ever found.
My great-grandfather:
William Cunningham Neilson
Driver, 88th Field Ambulance, 29th Division
Royal Army Service Corps
b. 14 Sep 1886 – Stirling, Scotland
d. 12 Feb 1950 – Victoria, BC
Served for 4 continuous years abroad without leave to see his family. Was serving in France when he and his wife lost a young son to measles. Driver for the 88th Field Ambulance (non-mechanized). Involved in battles in France – Battle of the Somme, Arras Offensive, 3rd Battle of Ypres, Battles of the Lys, and others.
Survived the war.
My first cousin, 2x removed:
George Gregor McKay, Private
Born 19 Feb 1923 – Winnipeg, Manitoba to John and Agnes McKay.
Killed-in-action in Italy, 02 April 1944.
These are just a few names but I’m sure that there are other members of my extended family that served in WWI and WWII and I will continue to research their histories to uncover their stories. And every year on November 11th, I will honour and remember their sacrifice.










































